9 hours ago
Monday, January 17, 2011
You have a choice. You can either view the really horrible, difficult situations in your life as a massive opportunity to learn more than you know now and develop a humble gratitude for the lessons...
...or you can see them as another example of how the Universe uses you as a toilet taking yet another massive dump on you.
You ask if you are a loser and failure because of the situation you now find yourself. Yes, it's true you designed it. Made the choices. Insisted on having your own way. Ignored the best wisdom of those around you. Were absolutely stubborn. Does that make you a loser and a failure?
No. That makes you human.
What will make you a failure is if, now that you know that your choices are incredibly wrong, you stay with them because you're afraid of what others might think, might say.
You become a loser if you think that staying seems better than moving on into the unknown. If you continue because undoing it seems too complicated. Yes, it's very frightening...but staying in a spirit killing situation is even more frightening.
You'll be a loser if you're more concerned about what others might think or say than you're concerned about what your spirit is urgently whispering now.
You're a failure if you don't feel all you need to feel about the current situation and walk forward into your life with the firm commitment that you will learn all you need to learn and add it to your experiences toward becoming a Real Human Being.
The situation? Yes, you designed it and realize, now, it was not good design. You realize that you've designed misery. But, you've only designed failure if you insist on having your way instead of doing the right thing.
You are not a failure by design; you become a failure by choice.
Which choice will you make?
Namaste' Till Next Time,
Holly aka She Who Has Been There
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